The Friday I Discovered The Sex Scandal

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09.30 am – Woke up. Showered. Breakfasted.

10.30 am – Surfed around.

11.00 am – Updated “Best of July” in Facebook and Friendster.

11.30 am – The internet connection slowed down. MCB. Can’t even check mails nor go into famouschris.com

12.00 pm – Updated famouschris.

12.15 pm – zzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz

01.30 pm – Lunched.

02.30 pm – Updated famouschris.

03.30 pm – Surfed around.

04.00 pm – Self improvement time!

    I learned that in a relationship, when a woman is upset, she not only uses generalities, but is also looking for support.

    When a woman says :

  1. “No one listens to me anymore”

    A man hears it as –

    “I give you my attention but you don’t listen to me. You used to. You have become a very boring person to be with. I want something exciting and interesting and you are definitely not that person. You are disappointing, selfish and uncaring.”

    How true.

    But what she actually means is –

    “I am afraid I am boring to you. I am afraid you are no longer interested in me. I seem to be very sensitive today. Would you give me some special attention? I would love it. I’ve had a hard day and feel as though no one wants to hear what I have to say.”

    Men tend to be more factual and will take words literally. A typical response would be –

    “That’s not true. I am listening to you what.”

    So before a man can learn women language, he has to be aware that there is such a language.

  2. Next.

  3. When a man faces a problem or becomes stressed out he will become silent. And he expects to be left alone to deal with it. Women’s golden rules is to never abandon a friend when she is upset. But it does not apply to men. It’s different. Men and women speak different languages.

    What he is actually saying when he is silent is :

    “I don’t know what to say yet, I am thinking about it. Just let me be. I can resolve this within myself if you don’t interrupt my process by asking more questions or offering suggestions.”

    NOT

    “I am not responding to you because I do not care about you and I am ignoring you. What you have said is not important therefore I am not responding.”

    Many women, including those in my past relationships imagined silence as the worst. This is due to the face that women are silent only for 2 reasons.

    Either what’s about to come out of the mouth is gonna hurt or
    she doesn’t wants to have nothing to do with that person.

    The above are excerpts of Chapter 5 of John Gray’s Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

05.00 pm – Updated famouschris.

06.00 pm – Super Gym.

08.00 pm – Dinnered at Mandarin Cafe.

09.00 pm – Discovered a sex scandal involving bloggers of HIGH PROFILE!
(Between her and her.)

10.30 pm – Tiger Arms!

The first 3 glasses.

01.30 am – Washed me feet. Took off me contacts. Brushed me teeth.

02.00 am – zzzzzZZZZZZZZZzzzzzz